I was in the process of rearranging the furniture in my second bedroom/office (yes, already after so soon getting settled!), and in the process, spilled contents of my letter trays where I kept correspondence, bills and other items not ready for filing. It was then I realized an additional reason why I had begun this rearranging. Here is what I discovered.
In going through the correspondence folder I came across several greeting cards I had received in the past and had wanted to save. I also found a number of photos (grand children); articles I had saved and some pictures I had saved from years ago that had been placed under the glass top to my office desk. I managed to sort these various items out and saved most all of them again.
It was lunchtime when I got through with the arranging and after lunch I sat down to read. While I was reading I found myself thinking back to the greeting cards I had discovered. There was a get well card from members of my Ageless Conditioning class following my heart surgery several years ago. There was a Christmas card from my good friends from back in the Whole Life Learning Center days in Colorado, the Ebrights, telling me of Jack’s hip replacement surgery done on my birthday and telling me I was an inspiration to him. Finally, there were Father’s Day cards from family members.
I realized how valuable the sentiments shared in the cards were to me. A couple of years ago I had gone through my files that contained years of cards from close friends and loved ones. I had cards from my son and daughter that went back to the time they first were able to scribble their names. These were so precious and re-reading them reminded me of the love that transcends everything. As difficult as it was I had to let the cards go, but before I did, I scanned many of them into my computer.
I guess the point of all this is that if or when we begin to take our loved ones and friends for granted, it is wonderful to have those greeting cards to look at again. It true that some connections remain stronger than some others. Never the less the special people whose paths have joined with us from time to time leave marks on our consciousness forever. To be reminded of our shared caring can strengthen our resolve to continue to care, to love and to respect each other more deeply.
So, it was a fruitful morning for me. Once again my “re-arranging” brought clearer insight about important relationships.