I KNOW you have asked yourself, “Why did this happen to me?” If you didn’t ask the question for yourself, you have probably wondered why so much bad stuff happens to people you know. Those of you who read my blog or follow my “Notes” on Facebook will know I have a dear friend who is one of those for whom the question surely can be asked. In fact, Shawn brought it up herself and in doing so she made light of her circumstances. I couldn’t help but chuckle about the way she was looking through the pain and fear to see the “funny” side of her situation.
As I read her question about why all the bad stuff happens to people it occurred to me that maybe God knows which of His children can handle paying up KARMA in advance! Okay, I know how this sounds, but it isn’t any crazier than thinking God is punishing us for some nutty behavior. I personally do not believe things happen by chance. I am not always able to connect the dots on why something works out the way it does in my life, but still, I know I am participating in some way. Hopefully in the scheme of things we will come to understand what it is all about. For one thing, consider what we often learn about ourselves when we overcome the challenge. How many times have you said, “Well, I won’t have to make that mistake again”?
When someone is in the midst of despair, pain, illness and discouragement, it is NOT time to point out how they brought this on themselves. It is just not that simple. Furthermore, who are we to think we know the cause/effect situations in another person’s life? We usually can’t figure it out for our own. Love and pray for those in need. Encourage them to do the same for themselves, when appropriate. That is your gift to the situation. That, in my opinion, is why you are connected to that friend or loved one who very much needs support, right now.